To everyone that’s wronged me even when I was right to them, I forgive you. Even if you aren’t sorry. My heart is happy, regardless. I wish you well and I pray karma doesn’t do too much damage to you even though you deserve whatever comes your way.
You cause pain to the people you outgrow, when you stay attached to them.
Love requires vulnerability. You truly have to give the other person the ability to hurt you IF you want to connect with them on a level beyond the superficial. The only thing you can do is work on your discernment and curate a list of deal-breakers to lessen your chances of getting burned. But ultimately you have to be vulnerable. Heartbreak is ultimately inevitable though, and wolves in sheep’s clothing are everywhere. This is life.
My favorite game is “Is this my depression or is it an inherent quality that I need to confront”.
don’t attach it to anything nor anyone— freedom is gripping the pursuit with your own hands, even if they hurt. even if they bleed. the more you access this picture, the sturdier your frame becomes. you’ll be happier. your relationships, stronger. watch it make sense.
Don’t be the hurt person who hurts other hurt people because you’re hurt. You will do nothing but continue to repeat the same toxic cycles and add onto the pain that’s already there. Leave the pain with who hurt you and receive the love waiting for you from who chooses you.